[A version of this article first appeared as a post on my blog From the Front of the Choir]
There is often a mismatch between how good you think you are as a singer and what your abilities really are.
Some people vastly overrate their singing abilities (just watch X Factor!), whilst others with a fine singing voice really think they sound awful. How can we reveal a more accurate picture?
There are two extremes to incorrect self-belief:
Both extremes can be quite persistent and it’s difficult to persuade people to see a more accurate picture. I’ll look at how you can get a clearer idea later.
Remember that judging a singing voice is all about context. Have a look at my recent post What make a ‘good’ singer? – it’s all about context.
I’ve started small singing ensembles and set up advanced harmony singing workshops by asking people to self-select. The criterion is: you must be able to hold a harmony part on your own.
Unfortunately, many singers who turn up can’t hold a part on their own to save their life! They really believe that they can, and even when put on the spot and shown that they can’t do it, their misconception remains.
Then there are those X Factor contestants who can’t sing their way out of a paper bag. When they get four people saying “No!” they become quite angry and start to criticise the judges. It never occurs to them that they might be wrong and the judges may be right.
They are deluded. But what really puzzles me is that their friends and family must be deluded in exactly the same way since they’ve encouraged their loved ones to sing out and be judged on national television believing them to be really good.
It’s at times like that we need to be cruel to be kind. This is not the same as saying that someone can’t sing (see Never tell someone they can’t sing – it is brutal, damaging and untrue). In the case of X Factor the criteria are very clear: you must have a great voice that will make you a recording star and sell records. If you don’t fit that, then you’re out.
I republished one of my old posts on ChoirPlace recently: Why can’t I sing?. One guy left a comment saying that
“very few people are capable of singing in a manner that doesn't make the wallpaper peel and the milk curdle.”
He puts himself in that category, even though others have told him that he sounds OK (which he doubts) and his niece has left a comment to say he can sing just fine.
When I say “everyone can sing” so many people respond by saying “except me!”. In some cases people just want to be special (“I’m the one person in the world that you’ll never get to sing well!!”), but in others they are just deluded. (see also “Everyone can sing” – what the hell does that mean??!!)
Here are some ways in which you can get a more accurate idea of how your singing voice sounds. But before you set off, you need to be clear what you’re trying to find out.
Be very clear about your aims. Here are some possible reasons:
Once you have got your question sorted, here are some actions you can take:
I’m sure I’ve missed out many other ways of finding out how we sound. Do let me know if you have other ideas.
Chris Rowbury
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