Mistango Choir Festival

Calm down dear, it's only a song!

  • [this is a version of a post which first appeared on my blog From the Front of the Choir]

     

    I was running a workshop recently, and somebody grabbed me in the break and said: “I can’t believe how patient you are with us!”.

     

     

    I have heard this before in various forms, but this time it set me thinking: what is the alternative to patience?

     

    creating a safe place

    When I teach or rehearse songs I try to create a relaxed, safe and friendly atmosphere where ‘mistakes’ are all part of the learning process and are nothing to be feared.

     

    I use laughter a lot, and behave as if everyone present is equally capable of getting a song ‘right’ and of singing beautifully.

     

    If people are having trouble learning their part, I try to break it down into smaller, more easily digested pieces.

     

    If people are having trouble with finding a particular note, then I emphasise the intervals between the notes either side, or make reference to how they can pick up their note from one of the other parts.

     

    If people keep stumbling at the same place, then I discuss it with them to find out what the problem is: timing? pitching? interval?

     

    If everything goes completely pear-shaped, then we just stop and start over.

     

    Gradually the song comes together, and even if it’s slow progress, by the end of a few weeks (or hours if it’s a one-day workshop), usually everyone is singing with confidence.

     

    it’s not the singers’ fault!

    I try very hard not to lose my temper (although I can get a bit snappy when a concert is coming up!).

     

    I try very hard never to single anyone out.

     

    And I try very hard never to blame the singers – it’s just the song that’s hard.

     

    So, if you describe that as ‘patience’, then yes, I do have a lot of patience.

     

    But I find that it comes naturally: I don’t have to make an effort, I don’t have to bite my tongue or pretend to be calm. In fact, I can see no other way of doing things!

     

    And I must be doing something right since we perform to a high standard and get excellent feedback from our audiences.

     

    what’s the opposite of ‘patience’?

    What, then is the alternative to patience when leading a choir?

     

    I can only imagine because I have never been on the receiving end of such an approach.

     

    I can imagine a choir leader getting frustrated, perhaps even shouting at the singers when they keep making the same mistake, of singling out particular singers who sing a wrong note.

     

    I can imagine tension in bodies, tight voices, apprehension, an atmosphere of fear (of making a mistake), a lack of fun and enjoyment, a dour seriousness.

     

    I can imagine a place which is the enemy of creativity, team work, pleasure and music-making.

    I sure hope there aren’t any people out there who create those sorts of places!

     

    what is your experience?

    Have you been lucky enough to work with patient song leaders or choirmasters? How would you characterise them? What are the important factors in helping you learn and rehearse well?

     

    Or maybe you’ve worked with someone who is the opposite of patient. How was it? What could they have done to make things easier for you?

     

    I’d love to hear from you, do leave a comment about your own experiences.

     

     

     

    Chris Rowbury: chrisrowbury.com

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  • Timothy Allen
    Timothy Allen I agree Chris - I find all the things you list above come naturally too. It's the definition of being a good leader (there's lots of great research being done into this at the moment - fascinating stuff). When everything goes right, we let the singers tak...  more
    January 25, 2012
  • Chris Rowbury
    Chris Rowbury Aren't we lucky Timothy that we find patience coming naturally! One other definition of a successful leader is to eventually make oneself redundant (although lots of egos baulk at this one!).

    I once had people leave a choir that I took over b...  more
    January 26, 2012
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